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Wives Only Prayer Call

Wives Prayer Call Flier

On August 24, 2015, I held my first prayer call. I had a heavy burden on  my heart for marriages and God gave me instructions and I followed. We have prayer every 1st and 3rd Sunday of the month at 9:00p.m. EST.  The only requirement is that you are a wife and you have a telephone to dial in. The prayer call is only 30 minutes. Find a quiet space in your home or in your car and eliminate distractions. If you would like to join and get the dial-in information, text @wivesp to 81010.

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God bless.

~Nicole L. Ellis, MBA





  • P-Protect your Time

    • Stop being everything for everyone else and nothing for yourself
    • Stop wasting time on things that don’t matter
  • U-Utilize Your gifts

    • You were created for a purpose-use the gifts that God has given you
    • If you don’t know your gifts, discover them
  • R-Rest in the Word

    • Sit with the Word of God and allow it to saturate your mind, body and spirit
    • Be Still and Hear God speak instead of always running with the first word you receive
  • P-Pursue your Passion

    • Think about the thing(s) you would do for free and now GO FOR IT
    • Actively chase your passion
  • O-Oppose the enemy (actively resist)

    • ACTIVELY resist sinning – be accountable when you sin and repent OFTEN
    • Stop giving Satan free reign over your life
  • S-Stay Focused

    • Stop allowing distractions to dismantle your desire to live with purpose
    • Set a schedule and commit to it
  • E-Eliminate Excuses

    • Everyone has 168 hours in the week, stop saying you don’t have time
    • Find more reasons to accomplish a goal vs. creating excuses to avoid achieving the goal


~Nicole L. Ellis, MBA

Wash Me With the Word~

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Wash Me With the Word

Titus 3:5New International Version (NIV)

he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit,

During cold and flu season, the doctor’s stress the importance of washing your hands. A normal part of ones routine consist of taking a shower, washing your face, brushing your teeth and so forth. To wash in the natural requires using water and some other liquid (soap, detergent) for the purpose of cleansing. Cleansing can be accomplished by dipping, rubbing or even scrubbing. The purpose of showering is to remove the dirt off of your body. The purpose of washing clothes is to remove stains and dirt from clothing. In the spiritual, washing refers to freeing from sin, guilt, shame, etc.

When you accept Christ as your Lord and Savior, He, who is the LIVING WATER frees you from the penalty of death, hell and the grave (Read John 3:16). Since Jesus is the Word made flesh (Read John 1:1-18) when you are washed with the Word, you are cleansed from your sin. Sometimes you have to be dipped or totally submerged in the Word through studying, praying and fasting. Sometimes you have to be scrubbed with the Word, which offers correction and rebuke. Sometimes you have to remove yourself from the filth of the world and say “WASH ME LORD!”

I challenge you not to just read the Word, but to be washed over with the Word. Allow your mind, body and spirit to be cleansed daily.

God bless.

~Nicole L. Ellis, MBA


BE the Salt and Light

Sunshine’s Reflections


Good morning! I pray your week is going well.

TFTD: BE the Salt and the Light

Matthew 5:13-16 (NIV)

Salt and Light

13 “You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot.

14 “You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. 15 Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. 16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.

Attention Christians:

Scripture tells us that you ARE the salt and light of the earth. These are spiritual characteristics of a Christian. And while being the salt and the light of the earth are in your spiritual genetic make-up, it will not be effective unless you activate those things within your life. You have to go from spiritual knowledge to actually becoming who scripture says you are.

Why are you here? To be the “seasoning” that brings out the flavors of God to the world. But what happens if you lose your saltiness? You become useless and pretty much garbage. Scripture tells us that useless salt is only good to trample underfoot. Imagine roasted potatoes hot and fresh off the stove and they look delicious, but when you taste the potato it taste bland. So you reach for the salt because your expectation is that the salt will enhance the potato and pull out all of the hidden flavors. You have that expectation because you know the purpose of the salt. Now imagine your disappointment if after you sprinkle the salt, you taste the potato again and discover the salt is old and has lost it’s saltiness. The same is true of the witness of Christians to unbelievers. Your life should be lived in such a way that you PULL out all of the God-flavors on how to live in this earth. When unbelievers see you they should have the EXPECTATION that you will enhance their situation or life, but oh if you have lost your ability to season others then you are useless.

The Word of God also tells us that you are the LIGHT of the earth. You are basically here to illuminate and bring out all of the colors of God in the world. We should not keep God a secret from others. If all of the power went out on a stormy night and you reached for a flashlight, you would expect it to illuminate the room. You wouldn’t turn the flashlight on and then put a bucket over it, right? Well the same is true for you as a Christian. You are the light of the world. You shouldn’t get saved, grow in Christ and never share His goodness with others. There are people who are living in darkness daily and you should shine the light of Christ to them in your Christian walk. You can do this by sharing your testimony, being generous with your time, talents and treasures. By opening up to others, you will prompt them to open up to God.

Today, I’m challenging you all (myself included) to go from intellectually knowing you are the salt and light to actually BEING the salt and light of the earth. You may be the only Bible someone “reads”, so live in such a way that you bring flavor and light to their life.

God bless.


Mrs. Nicole “Sunshine” Ellis, MBA

Can’t breathe: Try Spiritual CPR: Consistent in praying, Persistent in pursuing the knowledge of God, and Resistant to temptation.


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Peace be still

Sunshine’s Reflections

Good afternoon! Happy Tuesday to you all!

TFTD: Peace be still

Mark 4:39 (NKJV) 39 Then He arose and rebuked the wind, and said to the sea, “Peace, be still!” And the wind ceased and there was a great calm.

Life is often filled with challenges. These can vary from financial, emotional, mental, physical and spiritual to name a few. If you aren’t careful the storms of life can come and sweep you off of your feet. It’s possible to walk around with everything under control and out-of-nowhere a massive storm blows in and takes your breath away. You can feel overwhelmed, afraid, stressed out and tempted to give up when this happens, BUT there is great news, GOD STILL CAN CONTROL THE STORMS.

It’s important to slow down in the midst of the storm and speak to the storm. Yes, speak to it. Did you know that the same power that raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you? Did you know that the same power that positioned Jesus to command demons to flee resides in you? Did you know that the same power that allowed Jesus to speak to the storm and calm the waves is inside of you? Well it is. You have the power to declare, “Peace be still.” You have to speak over your mind to be still. You have to speak over your emotions to be still. You have to speak to your physiological make-up to be still.

When challenges rear its ugly head in your life, speak to it to calm down and more importantly speak to yourself so you don’t respond in a manner that will cause you harm. There power lives within. What do you need to speak to today? What do you need to declare “PEACE BE STILL?” I encourage you to tap into the power that God has placed within you.

God bless.

Mrs. Nicole “Sunshine” Ellis, MBA

Can’t breathe: Try Spiritual CPR: Consistent in praying, Persistent in pursuing the knowledge of God, and Resistant to temptation.

Beauty beyond the ruins

TFTD: Beauty beyond the ruins

Ecclesiastes 3:11 (NIV)

11 He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet[a] no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.

This weekend I was cleaning my kitchen and the Lord gave me a Saturday cleaning revelation that I wanted to share with my blog family.

I began sweeping our kitchen floor and realized how dirty it was around the corners. I have a Swifter jet, which I love, but I noticed some tough stains on the floor would need more attention. The Swifter was great for surface cleaning, but not deep cleaning. In the areas that had heavy traffic, I noticed deep dirt and grime. On the surface it looked like the tile was ruined. I got a Brillo pad, a bucket of hot water, liquid Lysol and a rag. I proceeded to get on my hands and knees and began scrubbing with the rag and Lysol mix. I first started in the corners that the Swifter couldn’t reach. I used the Lysol mix and rag, which worked well for the corners. I then proceeded to that tough stains. I had to pull out the Brillo pad and give it some elbow grease. The Brillo pad pulled the dirt and grime up. I then took the Lysol mix and rag and wiped up the dirt and finally went over the entire thing with the Swifter. It was then that I uncovered a beautiful tile. Floor that at the surface looked ruined was BEAUTIFUL like new.

While I was scrubbing, God reminded me that some things in our life are only surfaced cleaned (Swifter-represents self) we try to clean things, but we only clean up a few things. Some areas we can’t reach in our own strength so we ignore them. When we ignore the hard to reach areas, it allows the junk in our lives to pile up and begin to show through. Maybe our attitude changes, maybe our physical appearance begins transforming, perhaps our faith begins to decline. This unattended area in our life gives the appearance that we are ruined. Those issues that we struggle with daily leave tough stains in our life. They are so deep that we think we no longer have value. It’s not that we are ruined we just need some deep cleaning. We need to get on our hands and knees (kneel to pray) and go to God (the Brillo pad) to scrub the dirt up off of us. And because we have so much dirt in our life it will require some elbow grease. When God begins scrubbing us it will hurt and be uncomfortable, but HE is always with us. He will even send God-fearing people along side of us to help clean us up (Lysol mix and rag) they will encourage, pray, and hold us accountable. They will help reach those tough spaces we’ve ignored in our life.

We should always go to God first. Allow Him to lead us to the right people. The more we go to God the more we will begin looking and acting like Him. When we allow Him to go deep beyond the surface issues to cleanse us and allow great people to guide us along the journey, finally, when we do the surface cleaning, we will see how beautiful we are. We weren’t ruined, just hidden beneath the ruins. Only God is able to pull out our true identity. We have to go beyond the surface.

Everything He made is beautiful. Allow God to unveil who you really are.

God bless!

Mrs. Nicole “Sunshine” Ellis, MBA

Can’t breathe: Try Spiritual CPR: Consistent in praying, Persistent in pursuing the knowledge of God, and Resistant to temptation.

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God has taken me from a young lady who use to send out inspirational emails, known as the Thought for the Day (TFTD), to a blogger of “Sunshine’s Reflections“, to a business owner of Fit For A Purpose, LLC, and now to an author of not one, but two books. I give God all glory, honor and praise for doing great things in my life.

Matthew 21:22 (NKJV)22 And whatever things you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive.”

I stand on the Word of God and I’m a living witness, miracle and testimony that whatever things you ask in prayer, believing, you WILL receive.

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Single Rose ConferenceThere is NOTHING and I mean NOTHING too hard for God. If you give Him your “YES” and live your life according to His will, HE IS FAITHFUL to see you through anything.

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Have a blessed day in JESUS name!


Mrs. Nicole “Sunshine” Ellis, MBA

Can’t breathe: Try Spiritual CPR: Consistent in praying, Persistent in pursuing the knowledge of God, and Resistant to temptation.

I’m giving up

Poetry Corner

I’m giving up

by: Nicole L. Ellis

I’m giving up!

Yes, I am.

Don’t try to persuade me to stay.

I’m giving up.

I quit!

I’ve been here too long.

I’m over it! I’m done!

I am giving up on cautious ministry.

Where I tip toe around saints in an effort not to ruffle feathers.

All at the expense of those who I’m called to minister to.

I quit!

I quit explaining why I’m CALLED to people who wouldn’t understand the call even if God tried to break it down for them Himself.

I’m over it!

I’m over pretending I’m comfortable with mediocrity in the body of Christ.

I’ve been a resident of complacency city for too long.

Fear has corrupted the mind and body.

Contaminating my will to run the race God has instructed me to run.

People have been assigned to me yet I have allowed them to become casualties of unfulfilled purpose I quit and I’m not going back to the place where I place man’s opinion higher than God’s dominion.

Throwing caution to the wind

I will serve more

I will dedicate my life to my call

I will become who God created me to be

Actively pursuing my destiny.

(C) 2016



Have a blessed day!

Mrs. Nicole “Sunshine” Ellis, MBA

Can’t breathe: Try Spiritual CPR: Consistent in praying, Persistent in pursuing the knowledge of God, and Resistant to temptation.

Sunshine’s Reflections

Good morning! Happy Wednesday to you all!

TFTD: Give it up in order to gain more

Matthew 16:26 (ESV) For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul?

Imagine a child with a tight grip on small objects that could harm him. The child’s father says, “Give me that, open your hand.” Yet the child refuses because he fears he is going to lose what he found. He becomes consumed with the idea that his Father wants to take what belongs to him. He becomes rebellious and disobedient. His father repeats, “Give me that, open your hand.” Finally, the child opens his hand and his father scoops the small dangerous objects out and replaces it with a sweet treat.

During your life, it is important to give God all of you. Perhaps you are like the little child and you have been holding on to fleshly desires so long that you do not want to let them go. Or maybe you feel like you are losing a lot as a Christian. I want to encourage you that when you give things up for Christ you are not losing anything. When God says, “Give me that, open your hand”, He sees the dangers that are lurking ahead and wants to help you avoid them. He knows that if you let go of the small insignificant worldly things (failed relationships, unfulfilling jobs, material things, etc.) He can bless you with the meaningful spiritual things that will fill your soul.

What will it profit YOU if you gain the whole world and lose your soul?

Do not maintain a tight grip on the things and people that will cause you to lose your spiritual fortune in Christ. Let go and receive the fullness of God. Greater things await if you just open your hands and give it to God.

Have a blessed day!

Mrs. Nicole “Sunshine” Ellis, MBA

Can’t breathe: Try Spiritual CPR: Consistent in praying, Persistent in pursuing the knowledge of God, and Resistant to temptation.